How can I tell if my date likes me. I usually can’t tell if a girl is attracted to me?

By Guest  Sunday,July 24, 2011

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  • one2one | 24 Jul

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    Many singles watch a parade of potentials get away, because they don’t know how to detect attraction. Here are 10 automatic responses that the body gives off when there is attraction.

      Pupil Dilation – This is how you can tell within 2 seconds if there is any chemistry.
      Pigeon Toes- Women assume this posture as an involuntary sign of attraction
      Blinking-Women blink faster. (Mascara/Eye Liner was invented to amplify this sexual cue.)
      The “Boob Stance”-The chest automatically protrudes/rises, accompanied by a head tilt to the left or right.
      Shoulder Leveling -Both men and women square their shoulders to show attraction.
      Mirroring – Both parties move in sync e.g. sip at the same time, cross their legs etc)
      3-Second Gaze (Not to be confused with a cold stare) Eye contact is maintained for more than 2 seconds.
      18 Inch Radius- Both men and women lean in or automatically come within an 18 inch radius-which is definitely outside the normal personal space.
      Touching -Women tend to do a pumping handshake also known as the hand sandwich; men often do a shoulder squeeze to show appreciation. Prolonged, firm hugs and kissing on the lips is a PERMANENT turn off, if the other person has not shown any level of interest.
      Laughter (Could be nervous laughter, but laughter none the less)
  • Dating Coach | 27 Nov

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    The 10 automatic signs mentioned earlier are tried and tested ways that women show interest. But keep in mind that if you are not aware of what is going on around you, no matter how much a woman expresses interest in you, her efforts will all be in vain.

    Brush up on your ‘skills of engagement’ and by that I mean working on the critical workings of your Inner Game.

    It is a well-kept secret that thousands of libertine Don Juans don’t tell you. Here it is: Practice more effective methods of picking up on women’s pick-up strategies and your Dating life will change dramatically.

    Think about it, when you are out and about, there are gazillions of fragments of sensory input and mind-boggling stimulation being thrown at you.

    Redirect your attention outwards and focus on your external experiences that are taking place around you vs. directing your attention inward that you fail to notice that adorable woman who’s repeatedly glanced YOUR way.

    Remember those times when your buddy noticed her looking at you and you haven’t? There you go. Case closed.

    Keep this simple formula in mind.

    Redirecting your attention to things you didn’t notice before, leads to ‘Increased Awareness’ and even though the world around you hasn’t changed, your new awareness is now leading you to ‘Higher Receptivity’ as you learn to ‘receive and accept’ what IS.

    When you do so, you bring out the best in others which means ‘More Possibilities’ one of which you give others the gift of courage to approach and talk to you.

    And check this out, more people you attract, means ‘More Connections’ translating to more Dates for you.

    Do you see the connection?

    So when you start noticing a woman leaning forward, facing you directly, tilting her head, playing with her hair or fixing any part of her face or hair, smiling, touching your arm when she laughs, or even just picking lint off your shirt or hair, she’s sending you her beautiful and feminine Goddess Mating signals that she’s interested.

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