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  Derek | 18 Jul

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  Once is over you can start dating even before divorce is final. Why wait? It didn’t work. Don’t put your life on hold. Don’t make the mistake of considering her feelings, she’s not a part of your life any longer.

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  Zorah | 19 Jul

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  Honestly, not soon enough, but not with the serious intent of finding a replacement husband. Its important to get out, start connecting with people, man and women on a social flirtatious level. Work yourself back into feeling comfortable with yourself again so you can feel comfortable with others and on a date.

  We often loose ourselves in our old relationships and need to rediscover our authentic selves. Do this by being social and bringing some fun back into your life. Don’t you think you’ve suffered enough? I sure do!

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  Linda | 28 Aug

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  Not soon enough

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  martymar | 01 Sep

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  Women! consider there’s 153 million of you in america, and 157 million men, that means if every man in this great country of our’s get’s hitched four million of y’all are a**ed out. If it’s over your already behind the eight ball you better get rolling, cause there’s 3,999,999 others out there searching too.

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  DatingCoach | 11 Dec

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  BEFORE THE DIVORCE
  Before you got divorced, you had to deal with a mixed medley of emotions you can’t even begin to fathom – you felt like that sick kid sitting in the front car of your theme park’s biggest and loudest roller coaster. Every bump, grind, spin and turn seemed like forever. He just wanted the ride to end.

  All you wanted to do was get this over with so you can be on more peaceful, solid, stable ground again.

  Sounds familiar?

  I bet it is.

  DURING THE DIVORCE
  While you were navigating your way through the divorce proceedings, I’m sure life didn’t get any better. Once again, you had to come face-to-face with your own feelings of anger, hurt, regret, frustration and a host of other emotions.

  At some point, you may have felt feeling of despair, hopelessness, guilt and more anger at the thought that your hopes and dreams for the perfect Bill Cosby family life will never happen.

  AFTER THE DIVORCE
  When the divorce was over, you must have felt a sigh of relief. Well, at least you started seeing yourself differently. No longer the ‘other half’ that you’ve always been for 1, 5, 10, 20, even 30 years.

  There may have been a part of you that wanted to cling on to ‘what was’, or not. We are, after all, fascinating creatures of habit. Habit creates a sense of security, critical for survival among us humans, irregardless of race, age or sex.

  Every single one of us has dealt with pain one way or another. Working through the pain requires a certain degree of awareness, acknowledgement, acceptance, and a desire to move on with your life.

  However, there is a tremendous amount of waiting time between tasks and it is during these times that you can take actions to begin your new life.

  This can include everything from envisioning yourself in the lifestyle you hope to have post-divorce, going back to school, looking for a job or, if you’re ready, browsing Match.com or some of the other dating sites.

  Based on my clientele, I’d estimate that the average length of time it takes two people to divorce is between 18 and 24 months, that’s a long time to forego making plans for the next chapter of your life.

  It’s not only okay to start planning while also filing your marital dissolution paperwork, it can be an important exercise in moving on, feeling empowered and knowing that there is life after divorce.

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